Most people want their circumstances to magically change for them. They have no desire to become better so that they can actively improve their own circumstances.
You can become a person who does a very influential job. Your work can solve pressing problems, improve people’s lives, and surround you with important people who will work not for the sake of work, but to follow you, your ideas.
Your personal qualities as a person, and the work that you do, is completely under your control. But you cannot just wish for it. You must become the person who naturally attracts success. Here is what you need to do:
1. Move your motivation from receiving to giving
“The world gives to the donors and takes from the takers.”
– Joe Polish
Most people focus only on what they can get from life. However, as soon as you become more conscious, your desire will move from simple acceptance to giving.
You will realize that in fact it is much more satisfactory to give than to receive.
The truth is that you really only have one of two orientations towards people (and life).
Either you are in a relationship as a transaction, or as a transformation.
Most people have a transactional relationship. They focus only on what they take from the relationship. It is selfish and cowardly.
On the other hand, transformational relationships are fully focused on giving and appreciation – the hallmarks of abundance. In these relationships, the whole becomes larger than the sum of the parts. Both sides, in vulnerability and trust, transcend their own cowardice and become something more.
In essence, this requires being a donor, not an acceptor. As Adam Grant explained in his book Give and Take, when the two donors came together, the results are astronomical.
2. Set 10X goals and face your fears
Look at your current goals. Why is this your indicator for “success”? Why is this your goal? What happens if, in all seriousness, you achieve this goal?
What if, instead of earning $ 3,000 a month, you set a goal to earn $ 30,000 a month?
Is it possible? Of course, it is possible. Other people already have this.
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When you set a 10X goal, you need to think differently about your daily behavior. You must be more serious in all aspects of your life. You must eliminate the limitation of thinking and distractions.
Task 10X is one of the best things you have ever done for yourself. This goal must be created when you are in a peak state. You fall into a peak state, doing something powerful, whether it is exercise, training or staying in a unique environment. You can fall into a peak state around certain types of people who inspire you to be the best version of yourself.
Only you know what brought you into a peak and a passionate state. So do whatever you want and write down your goals. Announce what you are going to do. Then write this goal and visualize its achievements every day until it becomes your reality.
When you think about this goal, do not deviate from the natural flow of subsequent ideas.
You cannot complete 10X of your results by participating in the same thinking and behavior that you are currently performing. Therefore, thinking about your goal, you will also get an idea of what you need to do to achieve this goal.
You will need to really begin to show great courage in the work that you do. You will need to create more and more. Repeatedly, in essence. Quantity is often the fastest way to quality.
Not only that, but when you think about your 10X goal, you probably have ideas that scare you. When you do work that scares you, you cross a border that most people never cross. A frightening job is often a very lucrative and valuable job.
3. Do not focus on time and effort, focus on results
If you are saving time and effort, you are focused on being busy. You really think that the amount of time and energy you put into something is commendable. Conversely, when you are in the economy of results, you focus only on achieving a certain result.
The bottom line is what matters, and therefore it is very important to find the most effective way to get there.
You begin to learn how to achieve faster results. You take great responsibility. You are changing your environment. Moreover, you understand how important sleep and rest are to achieve the highest possible results. Therefore, you begin to relax more and more.
When you devote 80 percent of your energy to relaxation and self-improvement, you are effectively using the time you work.
You work in a short time and under high pressure, because you spend a lot of time relaxing and pondering.
4. Change your environment regularly
The environment in which you work should reflect the work you are doing.
Performing several types of work in the same environment is inefficient. But people do it all the time. They sit in one place and mentally move from one task to another.
A broader approach is to work on different activities in an appropriate environment.
5. Define “wealth” and “success” for yourself
Success and wealth are not only money. There are many people who have money and have little “capital” in other key areas of their lives. Obviously, money is very important. This solves many problems. This speeds up the process. However, money is a tool. This is a means to an end. For those who do work that they truly believe in, money is just a tool for work
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