What children need from their parents
Despite the pressure of advertising, social circles and even our own children, it is not the last game station or device that your child really wants from you. Here are some other ideas to try before searching your wallet:
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- Children want their parents to see more than anything. To be truly seen, recognized and validated. This means that he listens carefully to what they say, participates with interest in their daily activities and recognizes their feelings about the problems they face. When children are heard and validated, they feel loved and accepted.
- Don’t be afraid to show your child how much you love him for being affectionate. All children need hugs and closeness of their parents.
- Be present with your children. When you spend time with them, try to give them your full attention. Your children don’t want only half of you. Turn down the phone and turn off the television: children do not want to compete with technology for their attention. Be present in your commitment to them. Be sure to give each of your children the same time without giving up, as this will also help reduce sibling rivalry and competition.
- Set clear and concise limits. Help your children know exactly what is expected of their behavior in various situations. Limits help children feel safe. Even if it is possible that your child does not want to behave in a certain way, revealing such expectations in advance allows your child a certain sense of predictability.
- Make sure those limits are consistently met. Parents who cut and change their mind about the rules and the consequences of breaking them leave children feeling insecure and insecure. Be consistent in the way you handle transgressions. Reveal the possible consequences in advance so that both you and your child have a sense of control (they can choose whether they behave as expected or encounter the consequence).
- Children need a relationship with their parents more than material rewards. Here are some more ideas on how to establish and establish a strong bond with your children:
What children need from their parents
Children want their parents to remain their heroes. Model good manners and values for your child. They admire you and probably imitate your behavior. Be a good example for them
Children want healthy parents. It is important that you take care of yourself and treat your body with respect. Children need their parents to be strong and healthy, so be sure to eat well, exercise, and rest. This is modeling good personal care habits for your child.
Be sure to be realistic in your children’s expectations. It is important that you prepare children to succeed. Sharing tasks and chores is essential for managing a healthy family, but make sure that you have given your children tasks that they can handle and that the behavior you expect from them is appropriate for their age.
Praise and positively reinforce your child’s efforts and achievements. Children want their parents to be proud of them. Show your child that he is proud of his efforts and try not to focus only on his achievements.
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Delight yourself in your son. Have fun together and tell your child how much he enjoys being with them and that he loves them for what they are (not for what they can do).
There are many ways we can meet the needs of our children without relying on material rewards. You are one of the most important people in your child’s life and they will look for you as a primary source of support, comfort and company for many years. While it is okay to give our children material gifts that we can afford from time to time, the connection that these things provide between you and your child is short-lived. Be sure to put most of your energy into establishing, strengthening and enjoying your relationship with your child.
